We explore ENTJ and INFJ compatibility with Jane and Henrik. Jane (ENTJ) and Henrik (INFJ) met on a dating app when Jane was stopping off in Hong Kong. It was clear that it was right from the very beginning and they got engaged three weeks after their first date. In this episode they talk about jumping into the deep topics straight away, their mutual love of planning and their ‘relationship audits’.
Nat (ENFJ) and Ellis (ENFP) met on a dating app. After some terrible dates with men, Nat decided to change her dating app preferences to women and Ellis popped up. Nat was attracted to the way that Ellis could use fractions and Ellis liked that Nat had ‘one eighth Jamaican’ on her profile, so it was a match made in heaven, despite Nat turning up an hour late for their first date. In this episode, they talk about dating while Nat was still living with her previous partner, their wedding in the middle of Covid and Nat’s daily business ideas.
Tanmay (ENTJ) and Mugdha (INFJ) met when they were doing a Masters in Psychology. They first became friends and it slowly turned into something more. Mudgha knew Tanmay was special when he saved his last French fry for her. In this episode, they talk about the importance of communication, what they find attractive about each other, and whether wristwatches really serve a purpose in this day and age.
Nate (ENTJ) and Cally (ENTP) met at university 14 years ago. After some classroom banter, they starter chatting in the hallway, which led to an intellectually stimulating three-hour conversation. In this episode, they talk about how humor and intelligence are the keys to attraction, the stereotypes surrounding NT personality types and how Nate came across as a completely different personality type when they first met.
Fiona (ISFJ) and Mark (ISFJ) met on a dating app and their first date was a little awkward but they both knew they wanted to see each other again. In this episode, they talk about they approach things in a similar way, how they deal with conflict and Mark’s sexy job.
Josh (INFP) went for an interview at the chemistry company where Ella (ENFJ) worked. Much to Josh’s surprise, Ella immediately invited him for fajitas but he had to drive back to another city. Josh ended up getting the job offer and they started working together. After friend-zoning each other, Ella left to travel the world for six months until romance was sparked by Josh spontaneously flying to see her in Australia. Eight years later, they are (just) married. In this episode, they talk about the way they handle Josh’s need for alone time, their strong moral compasses and their love for coca butter.
This week we explore ISFJ and ESFJ compatibility with Eliana and Jon from New York. Eliana (ESFJ) and Jon (ISFJ) first met back in 2014 at a party. Jon was captivated but Eliana had a boyfriend at the time. They both continued to live their lives, and Jon would think about Eliana from time-to-time, until one day, over a year later after Eliana had broken up with her boyfriend, they reconnected on a dating app. Sparks flew and they are now married with a baby.
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Anna (ENTP) and Ethan (ENTP), who are based in Nebraska, first met when they were studying theater at college and have been together for two years. They were instantly on the same wavelength and shared a number of interests. In this episode, they talk about their introverted tendencies despite being extroverts, how they often think exactly the same thing and Ethan’s sneaky way of asking Anna out on a date.
Lou (ESFJ) and Charles (ISTP), who are based in London, first met when they started working together six years ago. On top of that, they were studying for the same Masters. This came with its difficulties and, after breaking up for a short period, they got back together and are stronger than ever. In this episode, they talk about being best friends before dating, the challenges of an office romance and their daily dinner debate.
We are joined by Jenny Ella (ESFJ), a top dating coach who specializes in online dating. Jenny share tips around how to make your online dating profile stand out from the crowd, what kind of photos work best and what to say in that first message on a dating app. We also discuss what sparks that initial attraction.
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We are joined by Andy McNab (ISTP) and Lily McNab (ESFJ) in their first ever exclusive interview as a couple. Andy is an ex-SAS hero, functioning psychopath and best-selling author. Andy and Lily met 22 years ago and they are a golden personality pair. In this episode, they talk about their polar opposite personalities, how Andy’s psychopathy impacts their relationship and their Badger Cam.
Indy (ENFJ) and Ben (INFJ) met on So Syncd during lockdown in mid-April. Indy lives in France and Ben lives in the UK, but Ben was recently able to travel to Paris to meet Indy and we talked to them only two days after they first met in person. In this episode, they talk about connecting during a global pandemic, their mutual love for each other’s intuition and accidentally wearing matching outfits on their first date.
Steve (ESTJ) and Steph (ISFJ) met five years ago and their first date was potentially the most perfect first date in the history of the world. On their second date, Steph unknowingly had heatstroke and Steve mistook her waning enthusiasm for disinterest but they overcame this minor hurdle and it has been a fairy tale ever since. In this episode, they talk about the Law of Attraction, the many things they admire about each other and their ‘non-honeymoon’.
Ellen (ENFJ) and Brandon (INTP) started dating seven years ago while working for a non-profit organization. Ellen was Brandon’s boss and there was something about him that drew her in. In this episode, they talk about pushing each other out of their comfort zones, overcoming their differences after the honeymoon period and Ellen’s passion for spreadsheets.
In our first podcast with tears, we explore ISTP and ISFJ compatibility with Peter (ISTP) and Robert (ISFJ). They matched on a dating website 17 years ago and moved in together on the very first night they met. In this episode, they talk about love at first sight, being the first married gay couple in Cornwall and their contrasting strengths.
We talk to a perfect personality pairing on So Syncd to explore ENFP and INTJ compatibility. Disha (ENFP) and Arun (INTJ) met on a dating app four years ago. Arun charmed Disha with his terrible puns and they got off to a good start when Disha didn’t block him. In this episode, they talk about being in a relationship while living on opposite sides of the world, borrowing a dog for the day and their very different personalities.
Maia (ISFJ) and Tom (ESTP) were set up by a mutual friend over ten years ago, back when they were 16. Tom was dressed as a Smurf, but he wasn’t the only one who ended up covered in blue paint that night. In this episode, they talk about their first date to the cinema (where they watched not one, but two films!), becoming Facebook Official and how they show love.
Anna (INFJ) and Logan (ENFP) met at work five years ago. They reconnected on Snapchat a few years later, after Logan accidentally thought that Anna was his cousin! And the rest was history. In this episode, they talk about their mutual love of ideas, their first date in an RV and how they complement each other.
Claire (ESFJ) and Andy (ISFJ) met 33 years ago at an airport and their romance blossomed on the ski slopes. In this episode, they talk about the challenges of spending nearly 16 years in a long-distance relationship, Andy’s obsession with deer and the importance of family.
In the first episode of Personality Love Lab, Jess (INFP) and Lou (ESFJ), the co-founders of So Syncd, talk about their relationship as sisters, their passion for Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the personality types they’ve dated over the years.