S2E1: The So Syncd Special: ISTP & ESFJ Compatibility

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This week Jess interviews her sister and fellow co-founder of So Syncd, Lou, and her long-term boyfriend to explore ISTP and ESFJ compatibility.

Lou (ESFJ) and Charles (ISTP), who are based in London, first met when they started working together six years ago. On top of that, they were studying for the same Masters. This came with its difficulties and, after breaking up for a short period, they got back together and are stronger than ever. In this episode, they talk about being best friends before dating, the challenges of an office romance and their daily dinner debate.

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Jess (INFP): And I'm Jess, an INFP, also known as So Unique.

Today on Personality Love Lab we have a special episode where I’m interviewing my sister and her boyfriend, Charles, who both live in London. Lou is 27, Charles is 28, and they've been together for four years. As we mentioned, Lou is an ESFJ, also known as So Supportive, and Charles is an ISTP, also known as So Practical. They would be the perfect match on So Syncd, our personality type dating app. Lou and I are really close as sisters and I can tell you from experience that she's a lot to handle, but Charles does it very well!

So, to kick things off, how did you guys meet?

Lou (ESFJ): Well, we met six years ago when Charles started working at the same company as me.

Jess (INFP): So you were there first and then Charles came along and started working there shortly after you?

Lou (ESFJ): Yes. So Charles joined about a year after me and then we started a university course together.

Charles (ISTP): We certainly did.

Lou (ESFJ): So yeah, we spent basically every day working together and then we spent two or three evenings a week studying together and going to lectures together. We were doing a part-time Masters and obviously speaking a lot about the course and then we really grew a good friendship, didn't we, in the first six months?

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. We knew each other quite well, especially spending so much time together working and doing the course at the same time.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, and you had just broken up with your girlfriend. I had a boyfriend. It was all just very friendsy.

Charles (ISTP): Definitely! Given the amount of time we spent together, we soon became, I would say, best friends very early on in our sort of friendship relationship.

Lou (ESFJ): Best friends that accelerated

Charles (ISTP): Best friends that kissed. And then I would say…

Jess (INFP): Just kissed. Nothing else!?

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, exactly.

Jess (INFP): So, when did you realize that it was more than friends?

Lou (ESFJ): I think about a year after we first met. We used to go out for work drinks quite a lot, and then we used to try and orchestrate it so we went back to the office together afterwards

Charles (ISTP): Yeah, I think definitely after a year we suddenly realized that it wasn't just friends. There was something there, there was a bit of chemistry we just happened to get along so well that it just started to develop from maybe a year on.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. I think it went from friends to friends that got together to actually, we really, really, really cared about each other and we wanted to spend all our time together. I think it just developed more into a relationship kind of thing. And then we were pretty together for a while.

Jess (INFP): Okay. And what would you say your first date was? I know you might not have one, but…

Lou (ESFJ): In terms of a date date, we used to go for lunch and dinner and things like that all the time by ourselves. So it was never really a big deal. Basically, he never paid for me for a long time.

Charles (ISTP): It's that fine line of 'where does it go from being work colleagues to best friends to something more.'

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, and there was no first date, but we always went for dinner together and things like that. So it just didn't really feel like a big deal. You would always come over and watch TV at my house. We literally lived like a stone’s throw away from each other. A year after I met you, you moved up to London, literally opposite the road from me.

Jess (INFP): So a coincidence Charles?

Charles (ISTP): I had no choice. I was forced to.

Jess (INFP): So did people in your office suspect that there was something going on?

Charles (ISTP): Considering how close we were and how well we got along, I think people definitely thought something might be up, but at the very early stages, we were able to just sort of bat that back and say, “No, it's just because we're just best friends.” It was at a time when we were going to university and we were spending so much time with each other that we could play that off as just being best friends.

Lou (ESFJ): People suspected, but no one ever had it confirmed until I left the company. So it was good.

Jess (INFP): Yeah. That's a good way of doing it and it does make it a bit awkward while you're still both working there.

Charles (ISTP): Well, we had to be clever about it. And, to be honest, we were quite young, very new into our jobs and we didn’t want to give off the air of, I don't know, skirting around the rules. So we had to sort of try and be as good as we could really, but obviously wanting to…

Lou (ESFJ): We had to keep our hands off each other.

Charles (ISTP): That was a challenge. It was a real challenge to have to try to be with someone, whilst working with them, whilst spending all your time. The only way to say it is it was a challenge.

Jess (INFP): Yes, well its spending all your time together but then also having to put on a front that's an additional challenge, right? And having to pretend that everything is always okay, which I imagine sometimes you wanted to hug each other, sometimes you wanted to strangle each other…

Lou (ESFJ): I think that describes it perfectly, sis.

Charles (ISTP): But we made it work.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, exactly. I think once we stopped working together, it was a lot easier. So we were kind of together for a while and then I think the work got too much and we called it off, but still not properly calling it off. And then that never really works for a long time anyway. So when I left, then it kind of really blossomed into the relationship.

Jess (INFP): And what first attracted you to each other?

Lou (ESFJ): Well, when Charles came for an interview, I texted my girls saying, “Oh my God! This really good-looking guy just left my office, and he came for an interview. I think he's going to start working here. They remind me about this, which is really sweet. But I think I really liked how we just really grew close as friends. And I felt like when you joined, you were still quite young, and you’d just broken up with your girlfriend… I was preying on the vulnerable!

Jess (INFP): Yeah, exactly!

Charles (ISTP): OK, well I see it from a slightly different point of view. I mean, I was new into an office space, at my first real job. And then in comes Lou, full of life, full of energy, asking me whether, you know, do I want a cup of tea? Do I want showing around the office? Do I want any help?

Jess (INFP): Do you want a kiss?

Charles (ISTP): So automatically, Lou's kindness and sort of energy drew me to that, and then combine that with her phenomenal good looks. She was beautiful. And then later on, obviously when we went out for drinks, and the real funny energetic side came out of her and that's what drew me to Lou. We've been best friends ever since really.

Jess (INFP): That's cute. I'm just expecting you to read off a list of words that Lou has told you to say. So, Lou, you didn't really answer the question. What first attracted you to Charles?

Lou (ESFJ): I think it was just, how we got along really and how easy it was to be around you. I think our good friendship just really turned into the emotional connection.

Jess (INFP): Yeah. That makes sense.

Charles (ISTP): I was also really, really fun to be around and funny. I made you laugh.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, I guess that's true.

Jess (INFP): And this might be a tricky one to answer given the slow burn of the situation, but when did you first consider yourself a couple?

Charles (ISTP): We haven't got a date, which we really know when we became a couple on. So I think…

Lou (ESFJ): There was a time when I’d left the company and Charles was on a work night out and told our old boss that we were together. So, our boss texted me saying, “Congratulations, I hear you guys are together.” I was like, “Oh, well that's news to me!” But I called my mum the next day and said, “Oh, apparently me and Charles are in a relationship.” And she was like, “Yeah, I know! I've known for like two years.” But then the best part is Charles actually had no idea he had said that anyway and just didn't remember it at all.

Charles (ISTP): It was a long time coming. That sort of cemented it. I wouldn't call it your generic boyfriend and girlfriend.

Lou (ESFJ): No, it wasn't. Obviously we'd never been able to hold hands or be affectionate in public in case someone saw us on Oxford street or out for dinner. So it just wasn't really a vibe. So I think when we started holding hands and things, that's when it became more of a relationship, but we never really had the conversation. It just was what it was really.

Jess (INFP): I dated someone once who worked at a competing bank and we would have a certain radius and certain tube stops that we then weren't allowed to be next to each other after those tube stops. But I mean, even if you're further out, you never quite know who you're going to bump into, right?

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, definitely.

Jess (INFP): And when did you first discover your personality types?

Charles (ISTP): I first discovered my personal type when all of this kicked off. It was completely unknown to me. And then all of a sudden Lou comes in with, “You need to do this test.” I was like, “OK, what test is it?” “Well, we need to see if we’re compatible.” I was like, “OK, am I?” I don't know, when was that?

Lou (ESFJ): That was basically when Jessica and I started So Syncd. So I made you do the test. I said, “Do the test, tell me what you are and then I'll see if I want to stay with you.”

Jess (INFP): So you passed the test.

Charles (ISTP): So hopefully I passed. I think I passed with flying colors. So that's when I first discovered it.

Lou (ESFJ): I'd done the personality test before at school, but then I properly was more engaged with it and really thought about it about five years ago when, Jess, you sent me the test to do. And I came out as an ESFJ, which I related to very much, I mean, it literally describes me to a T. And it was really good to find out that, without even knowing, we were the perfect match.

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. I think doing the personality test really helped me. I always thought previously before all of this…I knew there were introverts and extroverts and I always thought introverts were considered lesser, weaker, less confident individuals, but that's completely not the case. I didn't realize that if you're an introvert or an extrovert, it's all based around where you get your energy from. So for me, understanding my personality type really sort of gave me some answers to my whole character, which I think has definitely helped me going forward.

Jess (INFP): Yeah. I think introverts do have a slightly harder time than extroverts on the whole because the world is largely set up for extroverts and extroversion is rewarded.

Charles (ISTP): But it is great knowing that, you know, I am an ISTP.

Lou (ESFJ): Honestly, I think between you, Jess, and you, Charles, you two are possibly the most confident people I know, or the most, you know, just very…

Jess (INFP): At peace?

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. Very happy, very at peace, very secure. And that's nothing to do with being an introvert or an extrovert. It's just that you like to recharge by yourself. Whereas I recharge with other people.

Jess (INFP): Yeah, exactly. I mean, confidence really has very little correlation with introversion and extroversion. You can get lots of people who are confident who are extroverted and vice versa. You can get less confident people of both introverts and extroverts.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. I agree.

Jess (INFP): And has knowing your personality types impacted your relationship in any way?

Charles (ISTP): Oh, I mentioned this a little bit on the previous question, but it has definitely. The fact that I know I'm an introvert and I know Lou is an extrovert, it just explains a lot. We're able to understand each other and what makes each other tick. We are both Sensors. So we have a lot of...

Lou (ESFJ): We think in the same way, but if you want time alone, I completely respect that. And if I really need to go out and see friends, you also are really happy just being like, “OK, we’ll have a great time. I'm going to spend the night in and watch TV.” We're very comfortable with that situation. And I think that understanding each other is the main thing that we both got from it.

Charles (ISTP): Definitely. I mean, if you know that if I need to recharge, you know I need to recharge alone. Whereas if I know that you need to recharge, you can go and see your friends, you can go out with them. So it definitely paints more of a picture of understanding each other's character.

Jess (INFP): And what about the thinking-feeling aspect? Has that helped you understand each other a bit more?

Charles (ISTP): Definitely. Lou is a passionate feeler. So with every single thought that she is creating, it's all backed up by the feeling that she has.

Lou (ESFJ): I lead with my heart and not my head. And I think you are definitely more head, but I would say in terms of being a thinker, you are more towards the feeler side of a thinker.

Charles (ISTP): Well, what I quite like is when we do have our disputes, I will always think from a practical point of view, whereas Louella will always think from a feeling point of view. And I think understanding where both of our points of view come from is really important because it backs up your whole thought process.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. And then I think in terms of the judging and perceiving, I mean, I'm the planner, Charles is the go with the flow a lot more than me. And I just think that works so, so well. If I was with another judger, I know personally for me, that just really wouldn't work. I like the way that you bring the unplanned into the relationship.

Charles (ISTP): It’s like going on holiday. When we go on holiday, before we step off the plane, there's already a spreadsheet. And on the day, if there's something that I want to do, we'll go and do it.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, exactly. We're adaptable,

Jess (INFP): Adaptable planners. And that's why we pair judgers with perceivers on So Syncd.

Lou (ESFJ): Exactly.

Jess (INFP): So what kinds of things do you guys talk about apart from food?

Charles (ISTP): Apart from food and where we’re going to have our next bottle of wine, we love to fantasize about, you know, the immediate future. So where do we see our Sunday roast next week?

Lou (ESFJ): We like to talk about where we want to live in 10 years’ time or five years' time, or…

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. And we really want to, to build a house. We love talking about, you know, how many beds we want and also the kitchen we want.

Lou (ESFJ): And then I think the most important thing that we talk about is food. Like you have said…

Jess (INFP): I'm amazed at how long you guys can talk about food for.

Charles (ISTP): We haven’t even come on to the dinner debate.

Jess (INFP): Every night when I'm with you guys, there's like a 10-15-minute debate about what to have for dinner, even if we're just having dinner in sometimes. And you'll plan like a week in advance, that's genuinely crazy to me. I would probably plan dinner five minutes in advance usually. You guys are planning like a week in advance. That's nuts.

Charles (ISTP): Well, we love food, and you know Lou’s the planner…

Lou (ESFJ): You tell me what you want, and I make it happen.

Jess (INFP): It sounds like a good deal, Charles.

Charles (ISTP): It sounds like a great deal.

Jess (INFP): And how do you deal with conflict?

Charles (ISTP): I would say my personality is not particularly confrontational. I am quite relaxed and quite chilled. So, there isn't a huge amount of conflict within our relationship.

Lou (ESFJ): No, I think we used to, obviously working together and being in this difficult position of are we together, are we not together. The conflict, I would say, was more like some passive aggressive text messages every now and again, but I think that was like three years ago or something. So I think since then we've grown up a lot. And I think we both now understand each other a lot more. And I think the personality type thing has had a massive impact on that in terms of, you're not very argumentative, you don't love the argument side. And like, you're quite quiet if I just shout something out at you, you don't really respond.

Charles (ISTP): This goes back to our personality types and me being a thinker and you being a feeler. So we do have those odd occasions when a situation or a problem arises, and I will attack it from the thinking points of view and Lou will attack it from a feeling point of view. And, you know, we're both quite passionate in the way that we think. And sometimes I've got a different way of coming up with a solution and Lou’s got an alternative way of kind of a solution. And that can sometimes cause conflict. But then, you know, we're getting better at talking through that, but it's safe to say that there's not a huge amount of conflict within our relationship.

Lou (ESFJ): No, it's quite easy, but yeah, I think we're just a lot better at talking through things and you're a very calming influence on me in general. I would say I've calmed down a lot since being with you.

Jess (INFP): I went traveling with an ISTP once, actually, I've been traveling with him five or six times, and he is the most relaxed person ever. I think I'm fairly easy going about just, you know, day to day things like, you know, where do you want to go for dinner? That kind of thing. But he is another level. After about a month of traveling with him, I was like, “I just want you to say something. I just want you to like, have an opinion about something.” He was like, “But Jess, I just really don't care. I'm not going to make it up.” And I was like, “Yeah, I get that.” It’s not like he felt really strongly but was afraid to say it, he was just like, “I don't really care.”

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. I completely see that in you, but you're definitely not shy of an opinion. Like you are quite an opinionated person.

Charles (ISTP): I was about to say that.

Lou (ESFJ): One of you, I wouldn't say it's necessarily of the things I don't love about you, but one of your maybe weaknesses is you're very judgmental. You're not openly judgmental, but I see that side of you, and you do have an opinion.

Charles (ISTP): I'm more opinionated than judgemental. They’re different. There’s slight differences.

Lou (ESFJ): Yep. I would say you’re judgemental but…

Jess (INFP): I feel like sometimes I get a judgemental vibe, Charles. Just a slight one.

Charles (ISTP): It’s an opinionated vibe.

Jess (INFP): Somewhere in between the two, maybe.

Charles (ISTP): Let's go with somewhere in between the two.

Jess (INFP): What do you most like about each other's personality?

Lou (ESFJ): I really love how kind and caring you are. I know that you show how much you care through actions rather than words, but I really can see that. And I know that without a doubt, you will always, always have my back. But then I also like how honest you are with me. And you always tell it to me how it is. And then I just think I really love how much fun we have together all the time. We're on the same wavelength. We're thinking in the same way. And I just always want to be around you. You're my best friend. And I just really like who I am when I'm with you.

Charles (ISTP): Well, it's the same for me. I mean, being an extravert, you definitely bring out the more fun side of me, which I love, you know, you push me out of my comfort zone, and you make me do things that I would never, ever dream of doing. But in hindsight, I absolutely love them. You’re also the most caring and most loving person that I’ve ever known and the effort that you go to to make me feel loved is amazing. And yeah, I wouldn't change your personality at all, because I think you make me the best version of me that I can be.

Lou (ESFJ): I completely agree with that. I mean, that's really sweet, but I also know that you make me the best version I've ever been of myself, in terms of patience, in terms of kindness. I think that's it really, that's kind of when, you know.

Jess (INFP): Is she even more loving and caring than me Charles?

Charles (ISTP): It's hard, Jess. It’s hard.

Lou (ESFJ): I don’t think you’re that loving or caring, Jessica.

Jess (INFP): But yeah, that was a diplomatic answer. We like it.

And what would you change about each other's personality or what do you wish that each other would work on a little bit?

Charles (ISTP): There’s only two things that spring to mind. I think Lou definitely has a defensive tendency. When we do have our conflicts, I think Lou's defensiveness comes out and force.

Jess (INFP): I can vouch for you Charles, I know. She reaches that point, right? And then there's no going back.

Charles (ISTP): Honestly, it was case in point when we were downstairs having looked at the questions and I was just going to say, you know, you’re outwardly stressful. You exert, or you project your stress. And I said, “Lou, what do you think of that?” and Lou said automatically, “I don't do that. Never!” And I was like, “Right, case in point right there.” Number one and number two.

Lou (ESFJ): Didn’t you just say that there was nothing you would change?

Charles (ISTP): I would say two things out of a lot of things, you know, two things I would change.

Lou (ESFJ): Fair enough. Then for you, I think that the number one thing is when we do argue and you don't really say anything, I think that can make me more annoyed and more frustrated.

Charles (ISTP): I don't do very well with conflict. I would say I'm quite a calm and soft being. I sometimes don't respond particularly well to conflict.

Lou (ESFJ): And then I think another one maybe is that you could feel a little bit more romantic, but I think you already know that I would say like your love language is acts of service, but maybe a bit of unexpected romance would be nice, like buying some flowers on your way home. But I know that's not really part of your personality type, so it's OK.

Charles (ISTP): Thinking about that, if it's not on my journey to pick up flowers to come and see you, then I won't do it. Whereas probably a feeler would probably go out of their way to pick up some flowers.

Lou (ESFJ): Well, I need to get on So Syncd and find me a feeler.

Jess (INFP): I dated someone once who was away for a while and he came back a day early as a surprise to see me. But I was just so shocked. I'd had a really long day at work, and I’d set aside a couple of hours that evening to kind of just get prepared for him to come the next day. I don't know…I wasn't that happy that he turned up a day early and it sounds really mean, I know he meant it well, and I pretended to be really grateful.

Lou (ESFJ): You need time to clean your house.

Jess (INFP): And shave my legs and stuff like that. He was like, “I'm never going to surprise you again. You clearly don't like this.”

So, what challenges have you faced as a couple? Obviously you talked about working together, are there any other challenges that you have faced?

Lou (ESFJ): I think one of the challenges was when we were working together and we cooled it off, I then was trying to be quite modern about the whole thing. And you know, we were all sat in the kitchen with our other work friends and I was on Charles’ profile on a dating app matching with other people. And I matched with this girl on his behalf that you then ended up dating her. And I mean, that was really challenging for me. I thought I'd be really cool and modern and all that, but I really, really struggled with it. I got to a point where I was like, “I can't be your friend because this is so painful for me to watch.”

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. I remember the conversation vividly. And it came down to a conversation that we had and, you know, Lou was quite frank and, and she said, “I can't be your friend anymore. You either choose me or you choose your girlfriend.” And to be honest, I couldn't think of my life without Louella being in it. So it came down to being a pretty easy decision. I chose Lou and I broke up with my girlfriend and the rest is history.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah. I mean, I can't complain. But I didn't give you the ultimatum, but you knew that I couldn't do it anymore.

Charles (ISTP): It devastated me to see her unhappy. And she is a very, very…you know, she's got a lot of emotions. She wears her heart on her sleeve and it absolutely devastated me to see the, sort of the heartbreak that was being caused.

Lou (ESFJ): Which was my own fault, but it still hurt.

Charles (ISTP): But that was it. And I stand by that decision and, and that was it.

Jess (INFP): I remember you stormed over to my flat once on your way back from work and Charles had done something completely reasonable. I can't remember what it was, but it was like going out for dinner with his girlfriend or something like that. And you were like, “This is ridiculous!” You were so angry. And I was sticking up for you, Charles. I was like, “This is completely reasonable behaviour. You can't be angry at him for this.” And I remember, Lou, you were like, “You just don't get it. I need some sympathy now. I don't want to hear this from you.” And I was like, “I can't. This poor boy is acting completely reasonably. And you're like, completely not.”

Lou (ESFJ): I didn't want your rationale. I wanted your empathy when I then called Mum on the way home. And she was just like, “Lou, you wanted this, you know, you said ‘we should be dating other people. If we're friends, this is how it works.’” But the moment it happened, it was horrible.

Jess (INFP): It was a tough few months for you, wasn’t it?

Lou (ESFJ): Be careful what you wish for.

Charles (ISTP): Well, that was one of the challenges.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, and working together. But other than that, we've had a pretty easy time.

Jess (INFP): Okay. So that was tough for you, Lou. Was that tough for you Charles? Because you know, you were trying to be friends. Was that really tough for you trying to move on?

Charles (ISTP): Not really.

Jess (INFP): Not really!?

Charles (ISTP): Oh, sorry. I thought we were talking about the decision.

Jess (INFP): Did you really miss Lou?

Charles (ISTP): Yeah, definitely.

Jess (INFP): Yeah. That's what I mean, you were with this girl, but actually you really wanted to be with Lou still.

Charles (ISTP): Yeah, I definitely, definitely missed Lou. I mean the ease and the way that we interact and the… I really missed the friendship and not being able to have that true friendship and someone so close that you could talk about everything to. You know, even though I did have a girlfriend at the time, I still didn't have that connection. And it's that connection that I really missed, which made my decision clear. We had to have boundaries and, you know, we didn't want to stick to the boundaries and that just made it abundantly clear that it wasn't supposed to be. And you know, I was supposed to have this amazing relationship with Lou.

Jess (INFP): Aww that’s cute. So, what are your strengths and weaknesses in your relationship?

Charles (ISTP): I bring in elements of calm to our relationship. I also bring an element of rational thinking and I would say, you know, I lack the energetic sort of outgoingness, which, Lou provides in abundance. She really makes me a better person.

Lou (ESFJ): Yeah, I think basically you’re the calm, relaxed, very easy-going person. And I'm more energetic, I bring the social aspect to our relationship.

Charles (ISTP): Definitely.

Lou (ESFJ): So I think it just works. I think we just really balance each other out in a good way, but I just love that even when we're different, we've got the balance, but then we also just are thinking the same thing as well.

Jess (INFP): And what are you most looking forward to in your future together?

Lou (ESFJ): Well, I'm most looking forward to Charles starting to pay rent because you basically live here, and it would be great to get some money off you.

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. Okay. Well, I can't wait to move in with, you know, this is going to be the first time that I move in with my girlfriend, a girlfriend.

Lou (ESFJ): How many have you got?

Jess (INFP): Exactly. You’re going to get one week and the other girlfriend is going to get the other week, Lou.

Lou (ESFJ): At least I get some time off.

Charles (ISTP): Yeah. I'm really excited about that. Really excited about living with you.

Lou (ESFJ): And then we talk a lot about where we want to live, houses…

Charles (ISTP): Where we want to go on holiday, where we want to live. So yeah. So I'm really excited to see what happens with So Syncd. I mean, you've had some great traction, the podcast is going really, really well. I can't wait to see where So Syncd goes and it's going to be a great journey.

Jess (INFP): Great. Well, it was great to interview you guys. I know about your relationship anyway, but it was nice to hear more.

Charles (ISTP): Thanks for the question, Jess. I’ve learned a lot about Louella from them.

Lou (ESFJ): Thank you for listening to Personality Love Lab. We hope you enjoyed hearing this love story about personality type compatibility, and don't forget to click subscribe.

Jess (INFP): And if you're looking for your own love story, head over to your app store now and download So Syncd, the dating app that matches compatible personality types. It’s free and you can find people who are looking to connect on a deeper level.